It is not possible to tell whether an extension is enabled or disabled, directly from the extensions listing page without opening and checking the extension tabs. If there is another status column in the extensions listing page that indicates if the extension is enabled (up and running) or disabled, that will be incredibly helpful.
Currently there is an Enabled indicator in the Extensions listing page in Control Center, please see attached screenshot. Hopefully this is a solution to your idea. Please feel free to add additional input if you see that this does not cover your intended suggestion.